How Much Butter, Flour, Milk, and Cheese You Need
Bechamel is one of the five French mother sauces, and the whole thing comes down to one tidy ratio: equal weights of butter and flour cooked into a roux, then loosened with milk. The amount of roux per cup of milk is what sets the thickness. A medium, classic bechamel that coats the back of a spoon uses 2 tablespoons of butter and 2 tablespoons of flour per cup of milk. Drop to 1 tablespoon of each for a thin, pourable sauce for soups or a lasagna layer, or bump up to 3 tablespoons each for a thick base you can pipe into croquettes or fold into a souffle.
Turn that bechamel into a cheese sauce (a mornay) by whisking in shredded cheese off the heat. This calculator scales every number to the exact amount of sauce you need, whether that is a single cup for a quick gratin or six cups for a party-sized tray of mac and cheese, and it converts the answer into tablespoons, cups, grams, and ounces so there is no guesswork at the stove.
The Ratio Behind the Numbers
Roux per cup of milk — Thin: 1+1 Tbsp | Medium: 2+2 Tbsp | Thick: 3+3 TbspBecause the roux is built on equal parts fat and flour by volume, and the finished sauce volume tracks closely with the milk you start with, the tool simply multiplies the per-cup roux by your target cups and matches the milk one-to-one. For a cheese sauce it adds shredded cheese on top: about 2.5 ounces (a generous half cup shredded) per cup of milk for a standard mac-and-cheese richness, scaling down for a lighter sauce or up for an extra-stretchy one. A 4-cup standard cheese sauce, for example, lands at 8 Tbsp butter, 8 Tbsp flour, 4 cups milk, and roughly 10 ounces of cheese.
Why You Cook the Roux First
Cooking the butter and flour together for a minute or two before the milk goes in eliminates the raw, pasty flour taste and lets the starch swell so it can thicken evenly. Add the milk warm and in stages, whisking hard between additions, and you will get a lump-free sauce. Always melt cheese off the heat; boiling a cheese sauce breaks the proteins and turns it grainy and oily.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Common Measurement Conversions for Everyday Use
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| 1 cup | 8 fl oz | 237 mL |
| 1 pint | 16 fl oz | 473 mL |
| 1 quart | 32 fl oz | 946 mL |
| 1 gallon | 128 fl oz | 3.785 L |
| 1 lb | 16 oz | 453.6 g |
| 1 ft | 12 in | 30.48 cm |